Krissy’s Story – a calm and positive caesarean birth

Our baby boy is here! Arrived 3.30pm on Monday by c section in the end.

After successfully turning him so he was head down, they tried to break my waters but couldn’t as they were still too high so were going to go down the pesary route instead. However, his head then bobbed back to being transverse! All the extra fluid from the polyhydramnios meant they couldn’t get his head to safely settle downwards to start induction and a section became safest route.

It was all quite calm and planned. I was allowed your lovely smelling oil on my hanky, your wonderful Devi Prayer music playing to relax me and I did plenty of Ujjayi breaths to get me through the rather different, medical experience of a c section birth compared to my last two! The staff were great, did delayed cord clamping and let me have lots of skin to skin time straight away – rather than doing all the weighing, vitamin k etc in the theatre they did it in the recovery room much later which was so fabulous. They put the monitoring probes on my back instead of chest which made it easier. Definitely shows it’s worth asking for these things.

So he’s here and safe, weighed 8.15oz and is still awaiting a name!

Thanks so much for all your tips the last few weeks. I’m due to leave today after 13 days in, (phew!) and can’t wait! Not quite the homebirth we hoped for but these things can’t be planned as we know! It’s definitely made me realise how lucky I was to have such normal natural pregnancy and birthing experiences with my previous two!

Thanks also for the wonderful classes, the breathing helped so very much and the oil and music too.

Big hugs to you and your family Nikki

Loads of love and thanks

Krissy

 

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Neene’s Story – an Active Birth

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BABY JOSHUA

Just to let you know that after a 36 hour very active labour we welcomed baby Joshua into the world! He weighs 7lb 11.

Thanks to your Active Birth Workshop and Yoga classes I coped really well with just gas and air and water!

John was absolutely amazing with massage and breathing techniques, so thank you so much for teaching us how to have such a positive birth!

I also have to say that I was lucky enough to have the brand new water birth suite (The Mulberry Suite) at Frimley Park Hospital which is truly amazing, it was like walking into a spa, it even has mood lighting! The midwives were fantastic too, so although it was long, it was a great experience and I feel very proud!

Thanks again!
Loads if love

Neene

Frimley Park Hospital

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So…what is ‘Active Birth?’

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When I tell people what I do, (usually mums at playgroups during the week) sometimes I get a knowing smile…but often I get a slightly confused look and then get asked: ‘so what’s that then?’ and ‘how is that any different from other birthing classes?’ and ‘so does active birth mean that you have to stay upright and moving about all the time?…’ 

Well, I will give it my best shot at hopefully helping you to understand a bit more about what it is I do, and how active birth might help you during your labour and birth. So… ‘Active Birth’ can sound a little…energetic? shall we say? but it’s not supposed to be an endurance test! and its certainly not about moving constantly during labour and wearing yourself out. Certainly, there are positions and movements that can be beneficial during labour and birth, and that is where I come in.

My ‘job’ is to offer information, and a variety of techniques, which might be chosen during your labour and birth. I use the word ‘chosen’ here, as I am not prescriptive, there are no should’s or shouldnts’. I am there to present the options and to encourage you and your partner to ‘try things out’ before the birth of your baby, a bit like a rehearsal for the birth. This opens the door to seeing, feeling and practicing what might be right for you during actual labour.

By attending regular classes or coming to a workshop, these techniques can start to feel like second nature during labour and birth, and will ultimately empower you for a positive experience as you will feel more informed and in control of what is happening to your body or to your partners body. Particularly for Dads-to-be, or a birth partner, there is a huge pressure to ‘help’ or be the main support during this time, and I can honestly say that birth partners particularly appreciate coming to a workshop and learning about the mechanics of the pelvis! (as it’s pretty amazing…) and also learning techniques to help their partner during labour – from massage, to positioning, to relaxation and visualisation techniques, to the hormones involved in the birthing process – there are a lot of valuable tools to learn about.

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So onto the part where I explain exactly why active birth is called ‘active birth’. The term “active birth” was coined by an antenatal and yoga teacher called Janet Balaskas in the 1970’s. This was a deliberate counterpoint to what was happening in hospitals during that time which was “active management of labour”, a medicalised model of birth, and also the management of women to remain on the bed to give birth. At the time it was simply not allowed in certain hospitals to be free to move. Janet organised a Birth Rights Rally in central london to campaign against this, and so The Active Birth Movement was formed. Ultimately Janet fought for women to have the freedom to use upright positions such as standing, walking, kneeling or squatting during labour and birth.

Janet Balaskas found that the female pelvis is ideally designed for giving birth in upright positions, because the pelvis is then free to expand, making more room and opening up, so that up to a 3rd more space is created for baby to pass through. Plus the use of gravity in such positions not only helps the baby to move down the birth canal more easily, but helps the cervix to dilate, hormones to release, and can also make labour less painful. There are many benefits, more of which is covered in my classes. Like I said earlier, it’s not about staying upright all of the time, it’s important to listen to your body and to rest if you need to.  There are ways of finding comfort and relaxation whilst still allowing your pelvis to remain free and open, by using pillows to prop you up, or by having a lovely relaxing bath, or entering your birthing pool – which is fantastic for pain relief and a feeling of  comfort and ‘support’ when tired.

Active Birth is also a mental preparation as well as physical. It can be lovely to come to classes, and to be in a positive environment, seeking out ways of relaxing and calming the mind in the lead up to birth. To learn to trust your body and acknowledge that you will instinctively know what to do when the time comes, is hugely positive.

Here are a few benefits to having an Active Birth:Eucharius_Rößlin_Rosgarten_Childbirth

Numerous studies in the last 50 years indicate that when birth is active the advantages are:

  • the natural rhythm and continuity of birth are not disrupted
  • uterine contractions are stronger, more regular and frequent
  • dilation is enhanced
  • more complete relaxation is possible between contractions
  • first and second stages of labour are shorter – some studies show over 40 percent shorter in upright positions
  • there is greater comfort, less strain and pain, so decreased need for analgesia
  • the condition of the newborn is generally optimal
  • women feel that they are fully participating, in control and more often experience giving birth as a wonderful and joyous experience

 

Author: Nikola-Jane Barile

Birth Educator & Doula, trained by Janet Balaskas at The Active Birth Centre in London

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info:

Yoga with Active Birth. Classes run in Farnham & Haslemere

Workshops are run regularly, and these are run as 1 day, or 2 half day sessions for women and their partners in Farnham.

Private Antenatal / Workshops can be arranged.